Why people lose temper?.

I lose my temper rarely but when I lose it I become a totally different person.I don't get irritated so easily but there are things and situation when I get irritated.

There are lot of people who easily get irritated even with the small issues like my wife who can't even bear the small things and gets angry so easily that sometimes i have to think a lot before talking to her.In fact there are many people who are like my wife.

What should we do with such people?

I can't do anything with my wife I have to accept her as it is. Only thing which i feel I can do is being cautious whatever I talk to her.But for people who are not so much close to me I normally neglect them and just talk to them when it is required not like I normally do with the people.

Some people don't understand humour and sometimes they just get mad when someone does it with them I have lots of friends who are of this category for them too I have to behave differently. I do have to act just opposite of my nature as I am sort of a witty person and always like to crack jokes.

I am not sort of a person who easily get frustrated or get irritated.But certainly there are reasons for losing temper for me like the way cost of living is going higher day by day it has become difficult for an average earning person to survive in such conditions.The way crime rates are increasing day by day often makes my mood upset and I too feel insecure .The way recession is taking away the jobs of people and making many of us unemployed is also one of the reason.In today's time no surety of our job tomorrow makes me upset.Don't you think these are the reasons we should feel upset not for the small issues?. It makes sense rather for being upset.