So, maybe some of you ladies are out there wondering why your guy doesn’t care about the day you met, or the five-month mark of your dating. Well to put it simply he’s a guy, and guys simply do not care about these things. This doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care about you. It just means he doesn’t care about the date. Men are so preoccupied with other things and women just need to understand that saving the date is not one of them. Most men derive their happiness from their success at work or watching/playing a game with their guy pals. The reason for this is that men love competition. They love it when their team wins and they love it when they’re playing play station, sports, whatever it may be and they win. And, the same goes for success at the work place. It’s something they accomplished. Men are simple creatures, and to them it really is JUST a date. The idea of you and him being in a relationship together is more than enough. He loves you and cares for you just the same. However, you shouldn’t pester him with the petty “Why don’t you cares??” or the “Doesn’t it mean anything to yous?” He cares about you, really he does. He just doesn’t think it’s very important. And, since as women we tend to be more complex creatures, who, are always looking for an underlying meaning of some kind. We just can’t seem to comprehend why saving the date isn’t important to him. It’s just not and it really is that simple. So don’t forget he loves you, he just doesn’t care to count the minutes. And, please unless you are trying to push him away don’t pester him. There are hills to die on and this is definitely not one of them. Pick and choose you’re battles wisely like for example if he doesn’t acknowledge the one year anniversary.