In our daily life, we often hear complaints from either men or women that it is difficult for them to understand each other. Men often recognizes that it’s so hard to understand women nature. As a result, conflicts often arise between them. To reduce culminating conflicts, man or husband have to understand woman’s or wife’s characters. It is better for young man to know types of young women in order to be able to adapt himself to her. So they will find happiness in their family if they are married. Here are some types of women according to Jung's psychology which may be useful for you to select the appropriate woman. Please check those types of women according to Jung's psychology below:
1. Mother type.
A woman having such type will find her identity and satisfaction is upbringing children. She is going to be satisfied if she can bear and bring up her children. For her, children are more worthy than her husband. Mother type of women means a lot to every one because she gives children life . Nevertheless, negative excess can appear. On account of too much attention, she unconsciously inhibits their growth. She sometimes selects a husband who is psychologically “lame” in intention of treating him as a child. Meanwhile, this type of women should let her children stand on their own in their individual development in as much as they will not be with their mother forever. A mother that doesn’t wean her children precisely endangers their growth. In the explanation about mother complex, we’ve seen that a child suffering from complexity can never develop his personality. He will always ask for his mother’s help if he gets life’s hardships, though he has got married. When there is a tray between his mother and his wife, he tends to blame his wife.
2. Hetaira type.
This term derives from an Old Greek term referring to a type of woman who procures specific education. Such women can psychologically be man’s partner. This type of women is going to reach her identity if she is able to get along with him. The contact could be sexual intercourse or others. Clearly, they will be involved in profound psychological contact. Hetaira woman gets in touch with man to interest his love. He usually feels that such woman is too precious because she seems not to be involved in love. She is not so fond of sex, in contrast, she is energetic in social interaction. On the contrary, she is really perilous in as much as she never mix together into eternal relationship. She can easily move from one man to another. She is going to attempt to be in contact with whoever she wants nevertheless, she never tries to deepen the relationship. Such woman will be famous in man’s eyes but not in woman’s.
3. Amazone type.
An Amazone woman achieves her prime identity and satisfaction when she in active in the outside world or in modern age she becomes a career woman. She will do whatever a man does. Such type of women is expert in her job, even, she donates many things for the society’s sake. Amazone women could be a doctor, a scientist, a secretary and the like. The disadvantage that may be aroused is being able to be masculine and losing contact with her nature of ferminity.
4. Medium type.
It is not difficult to give an illustration of this type of women, because it can be easily found in the community. This woman obtains self-fulfillment by getting-along with unconscious level of human collectively or personally. This type of women according to Jung's psychology will be mediator between the unconscious level and human. She could be a mystic, an oracle, a palmist and the like. We usually consider her distrustly and suspiciously because the fields she is deeply involved in are divergent from anything we see in daily life.
From the explanation above, it is rather clear that the Mother and Hetaira types direct the woman at herself. While the Amazone and Medium types tend to aim her at the society. The Mother and Hetaira women according to Jung's psychology wants to get in personal touch with others. For them, relationship with others is so crucial. On the other hand, for the Amazone and Medium type of women, impersonal contact with psychological world is so significant.
A woman usually has one conspicuous type only, so she is eager to pursue other types. This can cause bad effects for her mental development. For examples, both types Hetaira and Amazone, can be incompatible with one another. Of course this obstructs her mental and social condition.
So a man sometimes hopes that his wife has certain types, that he forces her to have the type he wants. Such a thing is able to evoke conflict in her mental potential. Moreover, it can provoke quarrel in the family. On the other hand, when a husband accepts whatever type of his wife is, he will get her mature love. Therefore, let her determine whatever type she has and he has to attempt to approve and understand her choice. This is the characteristic of a happy and healty family.
A man choosing a specific woman as his wife has to know what kind of women type she is. We often find a husband who signs that his wife doesn’t have motherly nature, cannot communicate well and so on. This mean, according to Jung's psychology, is the consequence of his misunderstanding toward types of women. It is improbable that a women has all types without causing psychological difficulties.
For the woman herself, she should know that kind of type she herself is. After that, she has to develop it well without being afraid of other’s censure. Of course there are people who cannot accept certain characteristics. However, if she only has such type of women in it, this is certainly not her fault. That’s her nature, so let her type grow naturally. For this case, a husband must accept whatever a wife he has either her weakness or her strength and so does a wife.