The inner child activates in adulthood through sense of smell, touch, taste and emotion. It is the love of activities during childhood that fall into those categories humans attached the feeling of love, that does not dissipate as an adult, but transforms to adult interpretation of new experiences that subconsciously reminds the heart, spirit and other senses of childhood memories. Life is like a play land for humans that never ceases for the love of life to feel alive and satisfying.
This is key to necessarily how relationships are built between a man and woman and or lovers of the same sex. To help bring about intimacy with a mate, actions and emotions need to land in the area of childhood play. When building intimacy, do not neglect learning about the childhood of the one you love and are interested in getting to know. Learn the places, people and things they experienced to help cater to those lost moments but great memories by making them into new experiences by using the child within. Two people in love will find catering to the child within each other also helps build a great sex life.
Childhood memories that are warm and nurturing stand for reasons other than a child having fun and wonderful experiences. It stands for helping a person to be well-rounded and a productive citizen. Single parents who are raising children alone must remember to find ways to incorporate both male and female relationships they have with other adults to be positive and thoughtful. Humans are responsible to realize that the inner child does not die. What is put into the mental state and mind of a child lives forever. The more happy a childhood, and that does not necessarily mean it must be plentiful with material things and gains, the more reference the heart and spirit has to reflect on in all adult interaction.
© 2012 Sharon L. West