The little things that seem so obvious but most people forget to do.
Everyone knows you are going to problems in your relationship at some point in time, but here are some things I THINK will help any relationship out that most people just don’t do.
Actually listen to each other. All too often I hear couples having the same problems within a relationship. They both feel unloved or unappreciated. This could be resolved easily if we actually listened to our partner, and realize that no matter how much we feel otherwise, their feelings are valid. If someone that feels that way in a relationship there is a reason for it. Ask them what it is you do to make them feel that way, and assure them, and actually try to work on that to make things better. The same thing goes for them tell them what they can do to improve the relationship.
Do not criticize! criticizing someone will just make things worse. It will not make them do better. When you crticize it just seems as if you are putting them down constantly and they start to think you find nothing good about them.
Be supportive in your relationship and help each other out. It takes 2 people to make a relationship good and if you really love someone you don’t want to make it more difficult for them or push them away. Always have good communication and be open and honest with each and you can’t wrong.