If you're an adopted child, there will come a time in your life when you would be curious about your birth parents. Even when you're happy with your adoptive parents, this curiosity will lead you to search for the identity of your birth parents.
Many questions might be looming in your mind. Questions that involve the physical appearance of your birth parents to emotional questions about why you were given up for adoption will push you to seek information about your birth parents. The pursuit for such information may lead you onto an arduous and emotional journey in trying to locate your birth parents.
When you're trying to locate your birth parents, you must start from the beginning which is the moment of time when your were born. You have to start gathering as much information as possible so as to make it easy for you to locate your birth parents.
There are three important information that you need to acquire.
First, you need to find out the names of your birth parents. It's easier to locate your birth parents if you know the name of your biological father. Your mother may have married someone else and change her maiden name so locating her would be more difficult.
Second, you need to get the last known address of your birth parents. Your birth parents may have moved but knowing the last known address would help you to get in touch with their neighbors and friends and they might know where your birth parents have moved to.
Lastly, you must find out the name of the hospital where you were born. The hospital may have a record of your birth and therefore the details of your birth parents.
Three ways to get the above information
1. You may want to ask your adoptive parents about your birth parents. They may have information about who your birth parents are and where they live. They may even be in possession of your original birth certificate which contain the names of your birth parents.
2. The adoption agency which arranged for your adoption may also have the information you require. Talk to them. If possible, talk to the officer who was in charge of your adoption.
3. Support groups for adopted children are also excellent places to seek advice on how you can start to locate your birth parents. You'd be surprised at some of the tips and resources these support groups have to help you locate your birth parents.
If your information gathering is successful, you may be able to locate your birth parents easily. Otherwise, you may need to hire a private detective whose specialty is of locating people.