Being beautiful is not a gift, its a choice.
They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, meaning that different people find different things beautiful. While this is true, there are certain commonalities. This is why some celebrities are seen as beautiful by many different people around the world. What many people don’t realize is that what makes a woman beautiful is different from what makes a man beautiful. A woman’s beauty is primarily judged by her physical appearance (this has more to do with her body than the clothes she wears). A man’s beauty is judged based on what can be observed about his personality and abilities.
I have seen many women considered to be “ugly” and I still believe that every one of them can be seen as beautiful.I believe the two most powerful lessons in being beautiful that anyone can learn is to look for it within and to aim to impress primarily yourself. So women should take the time to look in the mirror and see what could be. Then try looks that make YOU say “WOW!”. Things women should focus on are their hair, face and over all skin. Take care of all three and keep them looking healthy. The important thing is finding YOUR style, whether it be curly or straight hair or makeup or no makeup. What looks good on one person may not look as good on another. When it comes to clothes, you should wear something that is the right fit for you. Avoid clothes that are baggy or raggy. The simpler in design, the better.Pay attention to colors, usually the brighter colors are best.
Ironically clothes are extremely important to a man’s beauty. They are more important to a man’s beauty than women. Thinks about rock stars, businessmen and movie characters such as Neo and Achilles. If you knew nothing about any of them but saw them, you would still make certain assumptions. You would even be able to tell the rock star from the business man. This is because their clothes tell us something about their personalities. The trick is knowing what personality traits are attractive. They include confidence, being energetic, positivity and determination among others. Not all of these can be shown with clothes alone. Some, such as determination, are seen by the things you do and the way you do them. This is the hard part for some. It is not the easiest thing to fake personality and I recommend taking the time to build these traits (if for nothing else, do it to become a better person). Be the best you can be and then show it!