Don`t do it for your man

Even you and your man had stayed together for long time, but there are something that you must be careful say when you are still with him...Maybe you should avoid for saying it or don`t talk it when you are still with him..Sometimes you did not realize that it really hurts him and maybe can break your relationship with him...

So be careful and read this point...

1. Don`t talk about his financial ability for buying something..

The man had higher egoistic especially when you are talking about his financial ability..Don`t talk about any expensive gadget and don`t push him for buying your jewelry..It can make him think that himself is loser when he can`t fulfill all of your request maybe..Don`t blame him too when he say that now he had no money for some of your request...He maybe thinks that you only use him....

If you and him had planned marriage,maybe you can discuss about financial problem in netral situation, and make all of your budget list..But if you are still dating with him, why you should ask him where he spend some of his money, just ask your self, what is your main reason when you still stay with him? Because of money or real feeling..

2. Comparing with your ex

Maybe sometimes you want to praise him when you say to you man "You are better than my ex"..maybe he thinks that someday if you and him must stop the relationship , you can say like that too with your new man after him..The simple conclusion maybe, don`t remember or talk about your ex..Mostly men did not like if his woman always talk about their ex..

3. Ignoring the time

You come late for making an appointment with him, don`t underestimate your "mistake" with saying to him " I am late, just wait for me"..The words like that make him (maybe) think that you did not think that he is important for you...If you know that you will be late, apologize for him and say that next time, you will be on time..It make him think that you are seriously when making an appointment and he is important for you
 

4. Guiding about his relationship with friends

Sometimes many women think that they can guide friends for his man..Sometimes they did not realize when you say to you man, That man is very cool, and you should had a friend like him"...The simple words like that is threat for your man and make he(your man) is so jealous..Your man maybe think that you only use him and want to be friend with another man...
 

5. Tell another people secret

Tell secret with your man can build an emotional bond with your man.It is the perfect way to tell him that you really trust him and you want to tell a "secret" something with him..But if you always talk about another people secret even your best friend secret, maybe make your man change his mind..You man maybe had another opinions like this if you always and always tell about people secret (especially your best friend secret), that you can`t be trusted even for your best friend..