Compatibility vs Similarity

In the world of love I have often seen people confusing the words of compatibility and similarity. Let me make it very clear to be compatible with each other it is not at all necessary to be similar or to have same likes or dislikes. Compatibility is the capability of existing and living together with harmony where as similarity is likeness and resemblance in traits. Do they sound same? I don’t think so. In that case what is more important to stay together compatibility or similarity? I think compatibility, similarity might bring you together but its compatibility that keeps you going.

If two people are compatible they tend to complement each other. Fillings gaps in each other and in turn completing each other, no one is perfect and we all have some short comings. One is shy and other being bold, one is spend thrift and other being miser. Not necessarily towards the extreme but yes people are different and it’s good to be different. Not because you like it when other person opposes you but you accept that person as he/she is. When you start respecting your dissimilarities you will be more compatible.

To be happy together doesn’t mean that you have to do same things all the time or have to agree on each and every thing. What’s more important is to respect each other’s decision, other person might think differently but he/she also gives you a new direction which you have never figured out on your own. Being different from each other adds variation and as always said variation is the spice of life. You may converge and diverge at some points but then who wants to walk on a straight line.

I have seen people worrying about how compatible they are with their partner. I think it’s in their hands how compatible they want to be with each other. When you start loving the person as he or she is you will be compatible more than ever. So what if he doesn’t like that green dress what’s more important that he likes you.  You have to mould yourself to be compatible with the other person and you can only do it when you are willing to.

Everyone has flaws and instead of fighting try to mend them or accept them the way they are. Communication is the most important think in any relationship if you won’t tell what you like please don’t expect the other person to guess it from your indications. To be compatible with each other all you need is patience, love, perseverance and be tractable. It’s up to you how compatible you want to be with each other and for that you need the driving force. The will to be together and wish to stay close forever is all that’s needed and as said where there is a will there is away.

To Love each other and stay together you should enjoy the differences you have and you will find a world where two different people can stay together with harmony. i have often seen girls complaining that my husband/boyfriend spends time watching cricket or football game, well if you want to spend time with them why dont you also watch with them. And for guys if you want to be together with your girl why not help her in the kitchen not necessariy cook with her but just be with her while she cooks for you isnt it romantic. Romance is every where all you need to do is enjoy it and live happily.